Tuesday, 30 September 2014

MORNING PRAYER

Lovely Prayer To Start The Day:

"Enlighten What's Dark In Me;
Strengthen What's Weak In Me;
Mend What's Broken In Me;
Bind What's Bruised In Me;
Heal What's Sick In Me;
And..
Revive Whatever Peace And Love Has Died In Me."

5 success formulae



5 SUCCESS FORMULAE


1. Know Exactly What You Want


2. Identify Which Idea Can Help You

3. Speak Silver and Deliver Gold

4. Ask with Conviction

5. Be Focused to be Success

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1. Know Exactly What You Want

This is a very simple question what Peter Drucker used to ask his corporate clients. Initially he was not given importance even in the USA. But his simple question in fact created the pathways to success. Our capability and ability is always decided by our own vision and mission. A corporation or a person without vision will reach no where, which might be desirable or might not be. Unless we know exactly what we want, we will not make an attempt to achieve it and the brain cells will also not be activated. Strategy has no meaning unless the final destination is designed. Hence the decision of the “end” is in the beginning. For knowing what you want exactly, you should just sit down and look at the end in your personal as well as professional life. Even in Gita, when Arjuna took aim at the eye of the fish, Lord Krishna explained to him that he just has to look for his final destination. It is crystal clear that our passion decides our strength.




2. Identify Which Idea Can Help You

There is new saying that an idea can change your life. We must know what side we have and how we can use this in our life. One thing is sure that people do not buy the products, they buy benefit.
We can get lot of idea from the story of Mark Zuckerberg an American teenager who thrilled the entire world. An idea to share feelings on Facebook was so hit that nobody could imagine facebook
would become the only world for people. It is needless to say that Facebook killed Orkut. People say that the 21st century is a world of network and support systems. But even Google could not save Orkut. So it is clear that new ideas speak and this century is the century of change and new ideas. His fame was so powerful that when Google came with Google Zuckerberg created an account with it and by July 2011 he had become the most followed user on Google+, outranking even the founders of Google, Lary Page and Sergey Brin. Facebook came up in 2003. The website was invented by Harvard students, Zuckerberg and his three classmates. The website allowed students to compare two pictures and vote for who was hot and who was not. Today facebook is the face of social networking among teenagers and yours. Just an idea! To earn huge money, we have to know the opportunity and should have a good team to support us.




3. Speak Silver and Deliver Gold

In the present situation just customers’ satisfaction alone will not work. Like Dronacharya used to teach both Pandavas and Kauravas, but he was mostly delighted with Arjuna although everybody else was also satisfying in their own respective areas. He was delighted with Arjuna the most. Once you believe in delivering diamond, you are a diamond. On a particular day if you work with sincerity you feel different, you feel differently in your energy levels also, you look different, and your internal world goes on top of the world. You remain composed while you deliver and create the value for valuable customers. Try to know what makes a difference to the customers. What makes them excited. Eastman had saved 300 dollars. He wanted to go for a vacation. One of his friends asked him to take a camera. He bought the camera, but then he understood why a camera was a luxury for the rich. He cancelled his vacation. He started developing his knowledge of photography for the development of cameras and reducing the process for developing the film. He read all the books on photography and in 1892 founded Eastman Kodak. Today, Kodak has the punch line, “We preserve beautiful memories” and he simplified the function of camera to the extent that even a child could take pictures just by clicking and become a photographer. Whenever
we commit ourselves to something, we actually need to understand it in its true meaning.




4. Ask with Conviction

Whenever you ask anybody about anything, ask with a belief, and with full conviction. Mohan Singh Oberoi applied for a job in Hotel Cecil, Shimla. Cecil was being run by D. W. Grobes. M. S. Oberoi directly met Mr Grobes. He said that he could take dictation. But that position was not vacant. Then suddenly he said, “I can do anything for value addition to your hotel.” His conviction was strong. Mr Grobes appointed him as an office assistant. Here is the strong conviction now. Immediately he applied for accommodation. Mr Grobes got irritated for a while but then noticed the
courage of this young man. He had the power to ask for whatever he needed. Rest is history for the hotel industry.




5. Be Focused to be Successful

Check your position. Where you are? Now see your surroundings and see and feel what you have achieved. If you are satisfied, then OK; if not, then find the next level of your life. The initial period of Eastman Kodak was downhill. He was not able to survive. He learnt how to handle accounts by dint of hard work. He got a job in a bank. Generally, here the people become accomplished, but in the case of Eastman Kodak, that was not the situation. I have already said that you get what you see. You attract what you want to attract, your vision decides your destiny. Once I was flying from Delhi to Mumbai. The person next to me was the P. A. to late Dhirubhai Ambani. I was just thrilled by listening to the vision of Dhirubhai from him when Indian Express tried to snub him. Because of that, he became even more powerful. When he was paralyzed, he became more powerful mentally. Just watch his re framing power. It is not the event, but your vision of the event that makes the difference. Whether it was created by God or by a human being he challenged both. I always see him as the master of problem management and the same concept is knownas disaster management in the corporate world. First decide your goals and what you want to achieve. Once you have decided your destination, decide what are the different ways to create your SWOT (strength, weakness, opportunity and threat) analysis. In SWOT, strength and weakness are internal. You have a direct control on these factors. But opportunities and threats are external. While going to the next level, do what you want to do, even if nobody helps you. Think and see that you are alone and what and how best you can do as an individual.

Wednesday, 17 September 2014

For all the Daughters



Beti ko Chand jaisi mat banao ki har koi ghur ghur k dekhe...
Per
Beti ko Suraj jaisi banao taki ghurne se pahle sab ki nazar jhuk jaye...

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Daughter is not equal to tension
But
In today's world
Daughter is equal to
Ten son' s...
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"Jo 'Mummy' or 'Papa' ko Swarg le jaata hai, wo "Beta" Hota hai
par,
Jo Swarg ko Ghar Le aaye,
wo "Beti" Hoti hai".....!
------------------------------------------------------------------------ A FATHER Asked His DAUGHTER:
Who Would U Love More, Me Or Ur Husband..?
The BEST Reply Given By the DAUGHTER:
I Don't Know Really,
But When I See U,
I Forget Him,
But When I See Him,
I Remember U..
------------------------------------------------------------------------ U Can Always Call Ur DAUGHTER As Beta,
But U Can Never Call Ur Son As Beti..
That's Why DAUGHTERS are SPECIAL..
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BETI ki mohabbat ko
kabhi Aazmana nahi,
woh phool hai use
kabhi Rulana nahi,
BAAP ka toh Maan
hoti hai BETI,
Zinda
Hone ki Pehchaan Hoti
hai BETI,
Uski Ankhe
kabhi Num na Hone
dena,
Uski zindagi se
khushiyan kabhi kam
na Hone dena,
Ungli pakad ke kal jisko
Chalaya tha tumne,
Phir Usko hi Doli mein
Bithana hai tumhe,
Bahut Chota sa Safar
Hota hai BETI ka saath
Bahut kum Waqt ke
Liye hoti hai woh
hamare Paas..!! 
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Another true facts from life

Zindagi Me 5 Bate Yad Rakhna:-

1) Kabhi Usko Sorry Mat bolo, Jo Tumhe Pasnd Karta Ho.

2) Kabhi Usko Bye Mat Kaho Jise Tumhari Zaroorat Ho.

3) Kabhi Uss Par Shak Mat Karo Jo Tum Par Apne Aap Se Jyada Bhrosha Rakhta Ho.

4)Kabhi Use Mat Bhulana Jo Tumhe Hamesha Yaad Rakhta Ho.

5)Kabhi Use Na Rulana Jisne Aapko Rote Dekh, Khud Ro Pada Ho...

True and Amazing Facts

WORLD FACTS: Proven scientifically

  • You can only dream about faces you have already seen. Your brain cannot make up new ones when you're dreaming.
  • The harder you concentrate on falling asleep, the less likely it will happen.
  • There is no word you can write using only the bottom row of the keyboard.
  • The human mind spends 70% of it's time replaying memories & creating scenarios of perfect moments and situations.
  • Don't use a song you like as an alarm to wake up. You'll end up hating it.
  • Laughing for 15 minutes benefits the human body the same as sleeping for 2 hours.
  • When you wake up around 2-3 am without any reasons, there's an 80% chance someone is remembering you.
  • After an argument, more than 85% people tend to think of all the clever things they should have said.
  • Listening to music has been shown to lower stress levels, lower blood pressure, increase concentration and even relieve pain.
  • A “moment” technically means 90 seconds.
  • Chocolate is about five times more effective than cough syrup when suffering from the common cold.
  • No matter how hard you try, you can never remember how your dream started.
  • There's a 96% chance at this very moment you are waiting for something that will never happen.
  • Emotional pain lasts for 10 to 20 minutes, anything longer is actually self inflicted by over thinking, making things worse.
  • You see yourselves 5 times more attractive in the mirror than you really are, thanks to your brain.
  • 99% people get scared when a text reads "can i ask you a question".
Isn't all beautiful and amazing?

Tuesday, 16 September 2014

Value the special ones in your Life

She came to u asking ur
attention,
U said u were busy...
She called u in the middle of the
night,
U said u wanna sleep...
She fought with u for no reason
just
to spend ,
some time talking to the one she
needs the most,
U say she is Impossible...!
YES Shes bad..demanding.
... Possessive...Jealous...Weak.
Emotional...Yes she throws a lot
of
tantrums right?
But, Remember..
Once upon a time when u were
alone,
U looked at the moon and said,
"I'll give everything for SOMEONE
who disturbs me all the time,
I'll never LEAVE her alone, I'll
never
let her CRY.."
U broke her Heart n the strange
part is...She still Loves U...
"Don't Lose A Diamond While You
Are Too Busy Collecting the
Stones..."
She is not Too Good for U...She is
Just the ONE for U

Some more from the reality Of Life

  • To be noted: LISTEN TO ALL BUT TAKE ONLY YOUR DECISIONS:

  • We will be respected more by our family and friends at the time of our apologize for our mistakes.Instant success by doing wrong things will be followed by a great disaster has  close on its hells. Achieving anything great takes time and will be remembered for a long time.Relax and enjoy every moment of our life which makes us to focus only on what we really want in our life.Whatever obstacles we face to reach our goals follow our good thoughts only.Tomorrow is always a new day as today is only available with us to listen everybody-Friends and enemies but act independently if tomorrow comes.

-- N.A.

Thursday, 11 September 2014

Marriages are made in heaven then why divorces

Marriages are made in heaven..is referred quite frequently, when such relationships develop and culminate in marriages.
It is seen that the theme was relevant in the early days when the girl after marriage was considering herself as house-wife with responsibilities of house hold, bringing-up children, looking after the family etc., but with the changing times, it has lost much of its relevance and a sense of equality has started prevailing and the relationship binding through thin bondage and quite easy to break. To maintain that relationship and ensure that the sense of marriage lasts, it would become necessary for both to act in a way  that there is no occasion for disbelief and management of the family on a total partnership basis.
This has to be maintained till such time the children grow up  and once this happens the bondage would be through the medium of the children which would add strength to the relationship and with age, and maturity levels also going up side by side, a sense of understanding automatically prevails and ideas of separation, divorce etc., would disappear altogether, and the real marriage with added strength would get established, and both feel that God should be thanked for such a nice relationship.

Life Quotes That Will Push You To Chase Your Dreams








1. Don’t wait for a sign





 2. Let go of excess baggage.





3. Use your problems as a motivation.









4.  Strive for better things.




Connections are made with the heart, not the tongue

"You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.... 
connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.


There is a famous saying:
"Bricks and stones break bones.. But words can break relationships..  So need to be careful with your words !"

Monday, 8 September 2014

You and me together make it all seem right O o hey yea!

Tera saath mill gaya
Ye jahaan khill gaya
Tujhse waasta huaa
Harpal hai naya naya
Meri raahein tu
Chaahein tu, tu tu aa...
Oh My Love
Tu hi hai sukoon
Tu hi toh qaraar hai mera
Oh My Love
Be my Love.. la ra la...
Tu hi toh qaraar hai mera
Oh My Love


You and me together make it all seem right

Khaali-khaali din thhe
Khaali-khaali raatein
Khaali thi ye zindagi
Mehki mehki si ho, behki behki si ho
Lamhe huey sharbati

Mujhko aasra mila
Mera tu jo ho gaya
Poori mannatein hui
Mujhko toh khuda mila
Meri raahein tu
Chaahein tu, tu tu aa...
Oh My Love
Tu hi hai sukoon
Tu hi toh qaraar hai mera
Oh my Love
Be my Love.. la ra la...
Tu hi toh qaraar hai mera
Oh My Love


Ruki ruki si thi
Thami thami si thi
Dil mein ye dhadkanein
O o Jagi jagi si hain
Shaamo seher ab toh jismon mein khwahishein

Mujhko aasra mila
Mera tu jo ho gaya
Poori mannatein hui
Mujhko toh khuda mila
Meri raahein tu
Chaahein tu, tu tu aa...
Oh My Love
Tu hi hai sukoon
Tu hi toh qaraar hai mera
Oh my Love
Be my Love.. la ra ra...
Tu hi toh qaraar hai mera
Oh My Love...